This one is gonna be short, sweet, and to the point. Below you will find a list of red flags that I look for in women that I want to take seriously. They will be divided into two categories: Necessity and Bonus. Imagine a car is like your relationship. Your car needs four wheels, an engine, gas, a steering wheel, and many other things. A bonus would be an aux cord, a seat warmer, backup camera, and the like. So compare a cars engine to a woman not being a feminist. The car or relationship won’t work without that. However, DO NOT think that this list is totally binding. All woman are crazy to some extent, and you’ll never find a woman that doesn’t have a number of these. If you have a strong masculine frame, you can mold a woman to what you want her to be. You have to decide how much work you are going to put into that.
Necessity
She has kids- Absolutely under ZERO circumstances should you take a woman with kids seriously for a relationship. You will always be second to the children and will have zero authority over them. The same applies even if she is a widow. Go date childless women, end of story.
She is fat- Big is NOT beautiful, end of subject. If she’s not attractive, then there’s no point in having a relationship.
She is a leftist and or feminist- Not surprising, but crazy, blue-haired feminists bitching about the “Patriarchy” and Covid are not worth your time. I’m not saying thst she must be a gun nut conservative chick who reads Evola. Most women are “default” leftists and feminists, who are not totally locked into their views. If a woman is really into you, she will pick up your interests and politics. A good woman is made, not found.
She is mentally ill or violent- All women are crazy to some degree. They are ruled by their emotions and hormones. What this point is addressing is more so personality disorders and substance abuse. Nobody wants to be with a borderline personality disorder (BPD) chick. These kinds of women can destroy you mental state for a very long time. They can be manipulative, abusive, destructive, and even destroy your property or #MeToo you. When someone shows you what they are, believe them. Don’t be captain Save-a-Hoe, it is not your duty to fix her. More and more women are being prescribed anti-depressants every year, (up to 40% of women under 40 according to some studies). Check your woman’s medicine cabinet. You’ll thank me later.
She comes from a broken home- If she comes from a single mother home, she likely has unhealthy views on men and relationships. The “strong, independent woman” bullshit is strong with these women. Proceed with caution.
She doesn’t pass the lingerie test- This ties in with many things. A woman should want to please you, and lingerie is a part of that. Sex is a requirement for men, and that means spicing things up. If your woman is not willing to do things in the bedroom with you, then its not going to work. Lead her through the act, and it may take time, depending on the girl. You’ll see a theme running through all of these points: is she coachable.
She is super religious- I’ve seen a common theme with super religious women, that they compare you to Jesus at every turn and will withhold sex and use it as a weapon. These are often women who are religious in name only and just use the teachings as a bludgeon to beat men over the head with. Being religious is fine, but making that your whole identity is a problem, in my experience.
She has a lot of debt- I’m not interested in paying for her 200K in student debt or any other foolish spending choices, enough said.
She is a “career woman”- Career-focused women tend to exhibit masculine traits that are not attractive: disagreeableness, aggressiveness, non-compliance, and the like. Having a career also is in direct conflict with raising children.
She doesn’t want to have children or stay home to raise them- I want children, and they absolutely will be raised in the home by their mother and not by some daycare social worker indoctrinating my children with gender ideology. If you have children, you better raise them. I’m making the money and she is staying home with the kids, end of story.
Bonus
She has tattoos- I don’t find them attractive at all, and they often signal other mental problems. Yet its not uncommon for women to have one or two these days. Case-by-case basis.
She has a worthless degree- Most Americans have worthless degrees and this can come with problems, such as leftist indoctrination and bad finances. Again, case-by-case basis.
She has a large number of pets- Replacing children with pets is something to watch out for. Nobody likes the creepy cat lady.
She is a “party girl”- Indication of mental instability, poor financial choices, and a high body count. Can be fixed but proceed with caution.
She can’t cook- Ideally something every woman should know how to do, but sadly this is becoming less common. This is in the Bonus category because it is one of the easiest things to fix.
She has expensive tastes- I don’t care for women who are bad with money or are very materialistic. Experiences and activities are far more enjoyable than things.
She doesn’t respect other people’s time- I hate people who are late. If you don’t respect my time, then you don’t respect me.
She is non compliant or bitchy- A woman needs to be coachable in order for the relationship to work. Men lead, women follow. It’s been that way from the beginning of time. “It’s better to live alone in the desert than with a quarrelsome, complaining wife.” (Proverbs 21:19)
She withholds sex- This is not to say that she should be looking for sex from you every five minutes. No, this is about gauging genuine desire. There is no reason for dating a woman long-term who doesn’t have genuine, burning desire for you. And when a woman has genuine burning desire for you, she will never withhold sex from you.
She has a high body count- Generally, this leads to horrible psychological problems that nobody wants to deal with. The problem is not the number of dudes she’s slept with; it’s that each body increases the chances of one of those men being an alpha. Women who are alpha-widowed will never have genuine desire for you.
Remember, these are general guidelines and not iron rules. There are no unicorns, and you need to be smart enough to known what combination of these YOU are willing to tolerate from a woman.
Giving major “lives-in-mom’s-basement” vibes. Which, it’s fine to live with your mother, but to talk about women like this while leaching off a woman…
What about Insane women as side chicks?